Content warning: All fiction on this website is for mature LGBTQIA+ audiences over the age of 18. It's not for everybody. All fiction on this website is a work of fantasy: these stories are NOT a reflection of what we (SouthernSuitor or the author of a given post or piece of text) would want in real life. All text on this site is posted here with the permission and consent of the author(s).
Sometimes we need an outlet for errant desires. Read at your own risk.

Who is SouthernSuitor?
To the left: a portrait of me done by @Valcoviac in September 2022.
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I'm a married cis gay man (pronouns: he/his) who is turned on by suits and ties. They are my primary fetish. I have other interests, as well: leather, bondage, wet and messy, domination. These are all kinks that I explore through my blog and fiction, and through conversations with kinky folks across social media platforms.
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I began my suit and tie fetish journey by joining Recon back in 2004. Since then, gay suit and tie fetishists have attempted to maintain multiple sites to act as a hub of the community: the old MenAtPlay forums; the Suit and Tie Fetish Network on Ning; SuitMen; SuitedGays; SuitFetish; suit fetish groups on Yahoo, Flickr, Tumblr, Facebook, Discord, Twitter, and Instagram. I have been through them all. And the experience is always the same: the community thrives for a while, and then gets deplatformed.
Although I frequently compare the suit and tie community to larger kink communities like leather, uniforms, and rubber, I find that we are a small, widely scattered group of people. Sure, many guys think of suits and ties as sexy, but it's quite rare to find any guys who are into suits and ties specifically. So the purpose of this site is twofold: it is both to house my own fiction and serve as an archive for members of the suit and tie fetish community.
I am passionate about this fetish because it is central to my queerness. I realize that other LGBTQIA+ people are into all kinds of other things, and I support whatever kink you are into. Even if suits and ties aren't your main thing, I hope you find something here that speaks to you.
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Free Stuff.
Here are some places where you can listen to my podcast interviews and read my fiction for free:
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ThiccRadio, Episode 24: Suit & Pie (with my good friend @ThoughtfulFetishist)
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Stories co-written with Thomas Stevenson:
Where I Lurk.
I follow the suit & tie fetish community wherever I can find them. I also have a growing leather family, and I go by many names on many platforms.
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If you’re looking for the blog password, support me on:
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My Classic “SouthernSuitor” Persona:
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SuitFetish @SouthernSuitor (This is something of a dead site, unfortunately.)
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As a Leatherman:
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Wolf Persona: